Resolution 2012

My Resolution for the coming year is “to blog more”

Yes, I want to start continue blogging, cuz I’ve very few posts as compare to my 3 years of blogging career. I’ve lot’s of topic in my mind. So, coming year would be full of posts here.

Although I never take resolutions, as I don’t drink, never smoke, nor I’ve any other bad habit, so there’s nothing I need to avoid. I’m really happy with my life J , then why taking resolution this year?

So the thing is, I want to explore more, I want to live more, I want to grab more, and I feel blogging can help me to achieve these things by discussing life lessons with bloggers.

I’m feeling some happiness in my heart for the coming year, there’s few reasons behind it. One is this is a Leap year, and by now every leap year has been good for me as I can count some milestones of my life in the past leap years. When I look back those were great years of my life, I felt more energetic, more confident, and more satisfied. But I’m also looking for the thing that how can I make my every year as good as leap year.

Second is I’m planning some improvement plans in myself, like Quick decision, taking responsibilities of little things in my life. And more over I want to reduce the time between thinking and doing. As of now I think too much and do nothing, as a great man said: “Thinking without doing is a Daydream, and doing without thinking is a Nightmare”

So, coming year would definitely be my best year cuz I’m focusing on doing more than just thinking.

I also feel there’s no such date for taking resolutions, we can decide anytime, like if we want to try new things then we should go and do it, if anything we know is harmful or bugging us we should avoid it immediately, that’s it. We have to be little strict to our self. As we say in hindi: “Jab jaago tabhi saveraa”

Btw, I’d request you all to drop your comment for your resolutions of this year, I’d be glad to hear you. Even if you didn’t take any resolution, you can at least write what you feel after reading this. I’m sure you must be thinking something worth sharing, you are most welcome!

Jo dikhta hai woh bikta hai

Indian Film Industry is quite disappointing me for last few months, I mean kuch movies ko chod kar agar baat karein to kya bakwaas movies ban rahi hein. Just baseless movies.

Although direction is good, dialogues are good even music direction could be quite ok. But they are just like walls without base and roof. I consider the story as base and climax as roof, Most of the movies are lack of these basic elements.

And yet for every third movie they think to getting Oscar, I mean what's going on to our Story writers? And why Yash Chopra didn't bring hope after veer zaara?

Are we running out of talented writers? or they are not brought up? I can count number of bullshit movies, for example:

Yamla Pagla Deewana.

Comedy good, dialogues good, music excellent, star cast good. But story bullshit, climax quite disappointing. Sach mein yaar isse acha to comedy circus dekh lo.

Same thing for No Problem movie. Another example is Tees Maar khan. Not to speak of "Golmaal 3" This movie was only made to proove that there is it's first part and still better than all sequals.

Hiss dekh ke to vomit karne ka man karta hai, what a **** movie was that? Have they gone mad or what?

Patiala House ko hi dekh lo, I mean they really think kisi bhi 4-5 movies ki story ko ek sath mila do acha sa music de do film hit. Aur kuch movies to hit bhi ho jati hein,

Are our audience dumb? or they just watch whatever is going on the screen.

Tanu weds Manu, Movie chahe kaisi bhi ho... Packing aisi karte hein ki gift dene wala aur lene wala dono proud feel karte hein. Jab unwrap karo to there's nothing more than crap.

I mean ek taraf "Welcome" and "Hey baby" jaise excellent example and dusri taraf "Housefull" and "Khatta-meetha". Action Replay ke bare me to bolne ki zarurat hi nahi hai. Ye to aisi movie hai, I can surely say while doing the movie Akshay and aishwarya would have quite sure that movie will not run well, I mean they are not fool, no body is fool, then why they make such horrible movies? cast & crew work for money only? Director do his job and went away? I'm not getting the freaking idea of making useless movies.

Ravan based on Ramayana, Rajneeti based on Mahabharata. I mean really yaar inko bolo ki kahin ilaaj karwayein seriously.

Dabang bhi bakwaas. Ye movies sirf dialogues and music ki wajah se chal jati hein, on the other hand

"Wanted" was excellent movie in terms of Story, Climax (I loved it), music and of course dialogues.

3 idiots is quite good, based on strong story and stylish climax.

Band baja baarat & Do dooni char had different track of stories.

Love aaj kal was EXCELLENT movie.

But on the other hand there's "I hate love story" and "Break ke baad" made-to-burn movies.

Anyways my point is: I can't believe while making such kind of horrible movies they don't assume of their result, of course they'd know cuz they are the movie makers here for years and yet they make baseless movies, why?

Or they are just following the Indian attitude of selling...

Kabhi Naye Packet mein bechein tum ko cheez purani.... Phir bhi dil hai Hindustani.... Phir bhi dil hai Hindustani.

Dreams can change your life

Why we dream? Why our science still not perfectly sure about dreaming? But still it’s the important part of our life. No I'm not gonna answer these questions here, I'm not that intelligent :), but I'd like to share my thinking about dreams, I dream a lot quite a lot, even sometimes it seems like day dreaming, but in those dreams I always make plan for everything, I call it dreaming for something and you get that or try to get that. This is just to make the difference about night dreams and Life’s goal which is also called dream. I’m talking about dreaming the Dream. Dream for the dream you want in your life.

Before Sleep »

It happens to me a lot I dream something really exciting just before the sleep. Those few minutes of my night are amazing; it gives me idea for the thing I'm stick to. Like I got idea of new design layout of my current project or sometimes I got interesting lines of literature in my mind to put that in Ghazal or poem. I'm not poet but somewhere in the corner of my heart I love to compile poems. Sometime I got almost brilliant idea to start a new thing. But I never know why I get creative ideas only before getting sleep when my eyes and body don't even bother to pick up the pen and paper. Sometimes I think of preserve the idea in mind and postpone noting it down next day, but then there's a risk of forgetting it or being un-priorities. So I've started typing it in my phone. But even then the Mood and the idea of creating something new, doing something interesting has been killed by the time. But still sometime I happened to wake up from bed and do it at the moment, for example I'm writing this blog entry just now before sleeping :)

Before die »

Do you think after die where would you go? Or do you believe in re-birth? I believe in it. When you are going to die and just before few seconds of your death; whatever you think that decides your new birth where will you born or what you are gonna be. I believe that just before the last sleep of life whatever we dream, whatever we think, it comes true in next birth because at that time our subconscious mind active at its best. On the other hand every time you get into sleep the last thing you had in mind decides your dreams and decides your decisions of that situation and answers your questions you are stick to.

For example when I met a girl on a date and rejoice her with my company, sometimes I feel that there's a strange thought coming into my mind but couldn't come, but at the same night just before sleep It happens to recall the same mood but this time same thought comes in my mind straight. And whatever you did in the day, all the things comes like flash back just before the sleep, you don't have to do it deliberately, it comes naturally, I don't know about others but this happens to me. So my point here is think for the better of you, what you want to be in next day, think for the best mood you had in past and always dream your Dream, that will surely gonna make it come true and happens to answer all your queries. Same thing applies to the re-birth. Your thoughts are going to build yourself, your future and your personality.

As India's former president well said: “Dream is not what you see in sleep, dream is the thing which doesn't let you sleep.” - A.P.J. Abdul Kalam.

And Dream is the thing which decides your next birth, which decides your path and track of life. So always dream your Dream, keep it in mind in your healthy mind, it'll definitely gonna come true.

होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा

होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा
ज़हर चुपके से दावा जानके खाया होगा

दिल ने ऐसे भी कुछ अफ़साने सुनाए होंगे
अश्क़ आँखों ने पिए और ना बहाए होंगे
बंद कमरे में जो खत मेरे जलाए होंगे
एक एक हर्फ जबिन पर उभर आया होगा
होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा

उसने घबराके नज़र लाख बचाई होगी
दिल की लुटती हुई दुनिया नज़र आई होगी
मेज़ से जब मेरी तस्वीर हटायी होगी
हर तरफ मुझको तडप्ता हुआ पाया होगा
होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा

छेड की बात पे अरमान मचल आए होंगे
गम दिखावे की हँसी में उबल आए होंगे
नाम पर मेरे जब आँसू निकल आए होंगे
सर ना काँधे से सहेली के उठाया होगा
होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा

ज़ुलफ ज़िद करके किसी ने जो बनाई होगी
और भी गम की घटा मुखड़े पे छायी होगी
बिजली नज़रों ने कई दिन ना गिराई होगी
रंग चेहरे पे कई रोज़ ना आया होगा
होके मजबूर मुझे उसने भुलाया होगा
ज़हर चुपके से दावा जानके खाया होगा

My first shayari

This is how a little thought grow up and finally develops into a Ghazal. Today I was just thinking of this few lines in my mind, then I tell this to some of my close friends, and here you are:

प्यार बसता है कभी, फूल में खुशबू बनकर
याद जगती है कभी, रात में जुगनू बनकर

काँटों से भरी ज़िंदगी में ग़म की क्या परवाह करें
जिगर का खून है, बहता है जो आँसू बनकर

वो इक लम्हा जो तेरे साथ बिताया था कभी
दिल मे बजता है, तेरी याद का घुँघरू बनकर

तू ही ना जब मिली तो दुनिया का क्या करें
निकल जाएँगे कहीं राह में साधु बनकर

कैसे जीता है कोई दर्द-ए-मोहब्बत के बिना
हम भी देखेंगे कभी ख्वाब में "तू" बनकर

दर्द को उसके, कैसे मैं भुला दूं "सागर"
दिल में बहता है वही दर्द जब लहू बनकर

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I liked this video You must watch it.

"मैं अकेला ही चला था जानिब-ऐ-मंज़िल मगर

लोग आते गए कारवां बनता गया ..."

-Allama Iqbal

Don't let your memories be better than your Dreams

I love my friends.

I really love them all. In fact from the beginning of my life they have an incredible impact on my mind. I cannot find out which friend I like most or which is like just another. But here situation is different. Let me clear it. Actually when I left my school after 5th class, I really missed my friends, specially girls. (I left means, I upgraded to the next school, that doesn't mean I left studying :) But I hardly have those childhood friends now. and this continuous as well as when I also left the next school, then after it on and on. But here situation is different as I told before. These are the friends I cannot forget at all. Though they can be too busy in their life or may be I won't be able to took out the time for the older friends. But even then I 'm expecting much from my true friends, like if I go long then they would surely try to be in contact, because If they are my friends so obviously they will respect me when I'll call & invite them to come on the central park.

As far as my older friends are concerned like Geeta, Nisha, Irshaad & Rahul they are still my good friends but they call very few, occasionally. But I still respect them for the time they spend with me. I can call it the golden period on my life.

And as well as here I would Like to thanx all of my friends: Anuja, Sandeep, Ravi, Poonam, Shristy, Piyush, Pushpender etc. (acha acha Deepika david bhi.. :-) I learnt a lot from them. They are just superb. some good moments and some bad moments I got to spend with them. For this I really thankful of my God, Parents, and they all who make me to come in YMCA.

This Idea was from the beginning to make any video of all my friends and place it on my blog. but I didn't expected to myself that it would be that great (I always appreciate my work). Though my friends (Best Friends) will always remain in my memories, but still if I couldn't make it happen to meet them or join them or anything in the future. Please forgive me. In this video I tried my best to make it funny or energetic, so that nobody, including me, will feel lonely or weep or try to convince himself sympathetically. that is why I put my best and energetic songs.
I hope you will like it. and still if you find any mistake in it then don't argue with me. :-)

If you like it or didn't like it. Please leave a comment below. I'll bring some newest stuff on my blog.

Something I liked

दोस्त बन कर भी नहीं साथ निभाने वाला
वही अंदाज़ है ज़ालिम का ज़माने वाला

क्या कहें कितने मरासिम थे हमारे इस से
वो जो एक शख्स है मुह फेर के जाने वाला

मुंतज़िर किस का हूँ टूटी हुई देहलीज़ पे मैं
कौन आएगा यहाँ कौन है आने वाला

मैं ने देखा है बहारों में चमन को जलते
है कोई ख्वाब की ताबीर बताने वाला?

तुम तकल्लुफ को भी इखलास समझते हो 'फ़राज़'
दोस्त होता नही हर हाथ मिलाने वाला